Please flush after use!
Early in my journey, I was in a public toilet, the sign said "Please flush after use". I tried my hardest but my face would not turn red. I then clicked what the sign meant! OK, that did not happen but it does make for a good intro to the blog title. Over the years, I've read so many stories and answered so many questions about the quite natural act of using a toilet (.....some more repeatable than others). I think if there were a 'Bachelor of Science degree in Toiletry', I might pass with First Class Honours. I jest, clearly,…
Things are not always how they seem
In 2014, Chris and I walked 84 miles along Hadrian's Wall on the English/Scottish border. It was a fantastic experience, and we met some really interesting people on our 6-day journey. On the 4th night, I encountered a lady who was pretty rude. I wanted to say something, but I was with Chris and other people were also present, so I kept quiet. I later discovered this lady was autistic and I was, therefore, relieved I hadn't responded to her initial rudeness. However, it got me thinking about the number of times I had perhaps been too hasty to judge people…
My stomach sometimes cramps my style
When planning to walk Hadrian's Wall in the north of England in 2014, I carried out a number of risk assessments (as all good Project Managers do!). In true 'Donald Rumsfeld style', I considered all the 'known unknowns' and the 'unknown unknowns'. Anybody who doesn't is either reckless or supremely confident (the latter can sometimes be the same as the former......). This major undertaking was within 4 years of my diagnosis and within two years of 3 surgeries and I was borderline stable. I wanted to get it done while I was able! As a Cancer patient, there were some issues…