Words are important
I was diagnosed with stage IV cancer in 2010. OK, it wasn’t a really aggressive type but it had caused a lot of damage. It’s amazing to think that someone is still adding to their stage IV cancer story after 12 years. You can read a chronological list of what happened to me and what treatment I had (and still get) by clicking here.
So, am I terminal? No, in my opinion, and by any stretch of the imagination, someone who has lived with stage IV cancer for 12 years cannot be considered terminal. Let’s look at some definitions which are generally agreed with similar wording wherever you look:
Terminal cancer refers to cancer that can’t be cured or treated. It’s sometimes also called end-stage cancer. Any type of cancer can become terminal cancer. (Note: end stage is a synonym for terminal cancer, not the final stage in cancer staging terminology). I’m conscious that with terminal cancer there can be legal ramifications to certain definitions (wills, life insurance, disability etc) and that these may differ on an international/federal basis. So, I chose these definitions from a couple of ‘big hitter’ and ‘authoritative’ cancer sites:
Cancer Research UK defines terminal as “When cancer is described as terminal it means that it cannot be cured and is likely to cause death within a limited period of time. The amount of time is difficult to predict but it could be weeks to several months”.
The American Cancer Society defines terminal as “an irreversible condition (it cannot be cured) that in the near future will result in death or a state of permanent unconsciousness from which you are unlikely to recover. In most states, a terminal illness is legally defined as one in which the patient will die shortly whether or not medical treatment is given.”
Advanced cancer is different from terminal cancer. Like terminal cancer, advanced cancer isn’t curable. But it does respond to treatment, which may slow down its progression. Terminal cancer doesn’t respond to treatment. As a result, treating terminal cancer focuses on making someone as comfortable as possible. The American Cancer Society defines it as “Advanced cancer is most often used to describe cancers that cannot be cured. This means cancers that won’t totally go away and stay away completely with treatment. However, some types of advanced cancer can be controlled over a long period of time and are thought of as an ongoing (or chronic) illness.”
Stage 4 cancer usually can’t be cured. In addition, because many cancers are not diagnosed until there are distant metastases, it is unlikely that most cases of incurable cancers can be completely removed. The goal of treatment is to prolong survival and improve your quality of life. It follows that some advanced cancers can accurately be described as “Incurable but treatable”. The length of time treatable will have an effect is variable and subject to many factors.
There are always outliers in any spectrum of outcomes.
The Cancer story is changing
What I also found during my research is that as more and more people are now living with and beyond cancer (all cancers) rather than dying from it, there is a new class of patients emerging – Macmillan UK calls this “treatable but not curable” and I believe this is very relevant to Neuroendocrine Cancer. I call it “Incurable but Treatable” but I’ve always been a disruptor (but a positive disruptor) – I just think it’s easier to say and sounds more positive.
Following my diagnosis in 2010, I went on to receive really good treatment and it continues to this day with Lanreotide backed up by a rigorous surveillance regime (and this is backed up by my own advocacy!). However, I have totally accepted the fact that I have metastatic Neuroendocrine Cancer and that it cannot be cured. By the way, I intentionally used ‘metastatic‘ rather than Stage IV. Mention of Stage IV can set off alarm bells and send the wrong message to the recipient. I don’t believe Stage IV has the same ‘red flag’ meaning for well-differentiated NETs as it does with more aggressive cancers of the same stage. Given what I know now, I would certainly challenge any doctor who told me I had a ‘terminal disease’ and at the same time told me I had a slow growing well differentiated Neuroendocrine Cancer.
As people live longer with cancer, medical science continues to advance providing hope for better treatments to be introduced.
I now live with this disease (….and its consequences) and do not feel like I’m dying of it. Moreover, I most certainly do not see myself as a ‘terminal’ cancer patient, particularly as I’ve now been living with it since 2010. I like to focus on how I can live better with it.
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